I am not particularly interested in constantly posting selfies for the same reason I don't have social media - I am not in need of unnecessary validation or attention and I value a level of privacy for both myself and my lovers.

My selfies are just to reassure you that I present in person as I do in my photos - I am consistently being told I am better in person which I appreciate.

In my opinion, it's better to be pleasantly surprised than in any way disappointed.